second chances

every day a “do-over”

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“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23)

Another translation, the NLT, says it this way –

“The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease. Great is His faithfulness. His mercies begin afresh each morning.” (Lamentations 3:22-23)

Mercy, new every morning! That’s something that I deeply desire and desperately need every day – mercy, forgiveness, a do-over, aka – a second chance. That’s why this truth from God’s word is so comforting and encouraging to me simultaneously. It reminds me that my Heavenly Father does give me multiple second chances every day – ie. “His mercies begin afresh each morning.”

This wonderful truth sets me free from regrets and resignation that otherwise would hold me hostage indefinitely. BUT – the mercy of my Heavenly Father rescues me from paralyzing despair over my failures, replaces my despair with hope – the hope that only His forgiveness, wiping my slate clean once again, can give me. Today, I am thankful once again for God’s daily mercies, which never run out. I am reassured by this truth from His word –

“If You, O Lord, kept a record of sins, O Lord, who could stand? But with You there is forgiveness; therefore You are feared.” (Psalm 130:3-4)

When I am most acutely aware of my failures and ready to give up on myself, I remember these words of King David and am reminded that my Heavenly Father does not ever give up on me (or on you either, dear readers) –

“He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His love for those who fear Him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. As a father has compassion on His children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him; for He knows how we are formed, He remembers that we are dust.” (Psalm 103:10-14)

Those words are all about God’s forgiveness and God’s second chances. Those words of truth are just the comfort and the encouragement that I need in order to have hope. God “removing my transgressions from me” enables me to keep going for another day. My load is so much lighter when my Heavenly Father’s mercy removes the weight of all my sin. My Heavenly Father’s forgiveness has given me the clean slate, the second chance, the do-over that I so desire for today. I will trust that, like the manna in the desert, God’s mercy will “be new again tomorrow morning” when I will without a doubt, desperately need it once again. After all, I have this assurance from God’s word –

“Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you; He rises to show you compassion. For the Lord is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for Him!” (Isaiah 30:18)

With God, every day is a “do-over day” for me, because His mercies are new every morning, giving me a clean slate and all the second chances that I will undoubtedly need as the day progresses. My Heavenly Father’s forgiveness always outweighs my sinfulness. He gives me as many second chances as I ask of Him. His word says so!

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

This truth assures me that God does indeed give me as many “do-overs” as I need – and I generally need quite a lot! Second chances are one of God’s many very good gifts. I am grateful to be one of the many recipients of “His mercies new every morning.” It is God’s mercy that makes unlimited “do-overs” available to me and to you every day.

I don’t know about you, but I will gladly take Him up on His generous offer. What God’s forgiveness does for me and for you is nothing short of miraculous. It is a miracle described by these words –

” ‘Come now, let us reason together,’ says the Lord. ‘Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.’ ” (Isaiah 1:18)

now that’s a do-over!

sincerely, Grace Day

irony to the “mth” degree

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My last post was all about second chances, actually second, second chances to be specific. My days are filled with them. Some are obvious and others I am oblivious to, not realizing the grace I have been granted. However, I don’t want to take any of my second chances for granted or to be unaware that I have received yet another second chance. Being aware of all the different ways God grants me mercy every day, leads me to thankfulness. If I don’t realize the grace I’ve been granted, I fail to appreciate the magnitude (and the kindness) of God’s protection, provision and patience with me on a daily basis. My Heavenly Father’s patience is what allows me all these second chances. I want to remember to thank Him –

“Let them (me) give thanks to the Lord for His unfailing love and His wonderful deeds for men. Let them (me) sacrifice thank offerings and tell of His works with songs of joy.” (Psalm 107:21-22)

Now some second chances are more dramatic than others. The near miss in traffic or being spared power outages and property damages in last week’s intense storms, as I was, leads me to “give God thanks with a grateful heart” as the song says. Interestingly, I just experienced a very ironic “second chance” shortly after completing the previous post – “second, second chances.” You can’t make this stuff up.

A few hours after publishing the post, I closed a tab from my “mtothe5th” site on another computer and somehow the “second, second chances” post was deleted except for the first paragraph! I couldn’t believe it. One thousand plus words had just vanished! I was panicked. I checked and rechecked, but the post was now just one paragraph long. All that time and effort gone. Gone where? To the cloud? Had technology stolen the very personal sharing of my heart and life experience?

You should know the backstory on this, dear readers. Technology and I are not on the best of terms. We have a love/hate relationship. I can’t decide whether she is a friend or a foe. She has played the role of both in my life. Still, I often feel that technology hates me without reason. I don’t hate her, but I don’t trust her either. Technology is so fickle and unpredictable. Just when I think I’ve got her figured out, she goes and does something like this. She steals what I labored over for so long. My post had literally disappeared from my blog and from cyberspace. I couldn’t retrieve it no matter what keys I hit on the keyboard.

If technology had stashed my post in the cloud, I have no idea where this elusive cloud resides, nor do I have the keys to gain access to all that the cloud hoards within her mysterious vastness. I thought all was lost. Until I found a way to a second chance. It occurred to me that my post had already gone out a few hours prior and that there were those who would have received it via email. Would their emails have disappeared also? I called a friend to find out the answer to this very important question.

Enter my second chance! My friend had received the email and it did contain the full text of my vanished post. However, technology would not let her forward this email to me. I guess technology was not giving up my post without a fight. BUT – my friend was able to print out her email which contained the full text of my post. I gladly went to her home to pick it up! Now I had in my hands the concrete evidence of my day’s labor. I had not labored in vain!

I now had the opportunity to restore my vanished post to the blog. This was definitely a second chance for this post about, of all things, “second chances”. Hence the irony. The post about second chances that was stolen away from me (or I inadvertently hit some wrong key on the computer) was now returned to me, giving the post its second chance to be published. What remained was for me to retype it into the computer, which I gladly did. My “second, second chances” post was itself getting a second chance! The irony of this is not lost on me, probably because it is off the charts inescapable! And while I totally appreciate the humor in this particular second chance scenario, the initial panic I felt when I thought all was lost, is easily recalled.

My Heavenly Father continues to give me forgiveness and second chances, some are just more obvious or in this case, more ironic, than others. But hopefully each second chance gets my attention, causes me to give thanks and compels me to take advantage of the “do over” and do better. I keep thinking eventually I’ll get some of these repeat opportunities, some of these second chances, right. After all –

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are (I am) not consumed, for His compassions (mercies) never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23)

“new every morning” – that’s the beauty, the hope and the promise of the second chances God gives to me – they are like His manna and His mercy – they are new every morning!

sincerely, Grace Day

second, second chances

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“Dodged a bullet” – that’s what they say when something bad or harmful or negative could have happened to you BUT – it didn’t. Therefore, you dodged a bullet. It’s a common enough expression, used often, probably because our days are filled with near misses or dodged bullets, even if we are unaware of just how many bullets miss us each day. Maybe ignorance is bliss, but I think not. If I truly recognize how many times I have been rescued, how many times I have been spared from some hurt or harm or danger or disaster – this knowledge should lead me to gratitude every time – gratitude to my Heavenly Father, who watches over me, whose mercies towards me never cease. After all,

“My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip – He who watches over you will not slumber; indeed, He who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord watches over you – the Lord is your shade at your right hand; the sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord will keep you from all harm – He will watch over your life; the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.” (Psalm 121:2-8)

This has been a week of particularly stormy spring weather here, complete with lightning, thunderstorms, heavy rains, high speed winds and even some tornado touchdowns one evening. We have been under weather advisories multiple evenings and I have found myself driving in some challenging conditions this week. I have definitely dodged a few bullets on the pothole filled roads this week, (post – “pitfalls and potholes”) resulting in multiple second chances for me and for my car.

BUT – in truth, is this me dodging bullets, due to my skill, dexterity, wisdom and wits? OR – is this me receiving God’s freely given, undeserved grace, mercy and protection over my daily life? I think we both know this is the latter and never the former. I am not a skilled bullet dodger in the least. But God is a skilled protector and a merciful giver of second, second chances. And I am the thankful recipient of all those second, second chances that His mercy and His protection give to me. My response? I definitely say with the psalmist –

“Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits – who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.” (Psalm 103:2-5)

My Heavenly Father “forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases” cancelling my debt and setting me free again and again. (just like the fellow in my previous post – “second chances”) I experience this on a daily basis, although some of my rescues are more dramatic than others and some of my cancelled debts are larger than others. Nonetheless, I want to be aware of and thankful for each and every one of my second, second chances, of every forgiven sin, every cancelled debt that I never could have paid myself.

Just this past week, I received yet another kind of second chance. It started with a medical test that required “more testing”, meaning – maybe something is wrong, let’s take a closer look. So in the interim between first and second tests, I lived with the possibility of this diagnosis being reality. When the second test revealed “nothing to see here, false alarm”, it was for me a new beginning, a clean slate. I was freed from the burden that this diagnosis would have entailed, a great weight was lifted from me, my debt was wiped away, there would be no “jail time” for me due to illness. I have been given yet another second chance.

Now that I have been set free, what will I do with my new-found freedom? Go back to my old life? Do what the guy in my previous post did when his debt was forgiven and he was set free? FYI – he was so grateful to have his debt forgiven, that his first act as a forgiven, free man was to go out and send to prison the first person he came across who owed him an inconsequentially small sum of money. (Matthew chapter 18 – the parable of the unmerciful servant) No, that is NOT how I want to live out my debt free, sins forgiven, bailed out of jail life.

Maybe I should think about sharing the good news that I have experienced with others, letting them know that they too can have second, second chances in this life. God is not stingy with His forgiveness, nor with His mercy and lovingkindness. In fact, in Psalms I read –

“He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His love for those who fear Him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. As a father has compassion on His children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him; for He knows how we are formed, He remembers that we are dust.” (Psalm 103:10-14)

It’s not that I have been getting better at dodging bullets, or that I have been dodging bullets at all. The truth is that God is being gracious to me and continues to give me undeserved, unearned second, second chances every day as I walk with Him. I want every second chance God gives me, to conform me a little closer to His image and to His will. So that the next time God forgives me for saying harsh words instead of kind words, His forgiveness will change me, so much so, that when given that next second chance – I will say the kind words He desires, instead of the harsh or hurtful words I might speak if left unchanged by His forgiveness and love.

However, I will allow God’s forgiveness to change me. I will not squander away the precious gift of second chances, (like the unmerciful servant) nor of second, second chances, nor of all the second chances God gives after that. Each second chance is a gift. I will thank my Heavenly Father for each and every one of them that He sends my way. And God gives me these second chances at just the right time. Just when I think I’ve messed up too bad to come back from whatever it is, I’m reminded of others who must have thought this very same thing. They believed that they too, had used up all their second chances with God.

There was the prodigal son, the disciple Peter and the thief hanging on the cross beside Jesus, to name a few. Each one of these had messed up big time with some really bad decisions. BUT – each one was rescued, forgiven, and restored to family, to their calling, and to eternal life respectively. The Good News of the Gospel – you and I are offered a second chance every day. I just have to humble myself, confess my failure and ask God for forgiveness. God is faithful to respond by giving me that second chance. Then I must be brave enough to accept the opportunity and face the challenge that a second chance always brings with it. In humility I pray King David’s prayer –

“Have mercy on me, O God, according to Your unfailing love; according to Your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. . . . Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. . . . Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. . . . Restore to me the joy of Your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.” (Psalm 51:1-2, 7, 10 & 12)

Second, second chances – King David received them multiple times. And so did a most unlikely woman – the infamous woman caught in adultery. Her second chance encounter with Jesus was truly dramatic. She was called to account publicly, in front of a large crowd, by the religious leaders of the day. However, this situation intended for public humiliation of the woman and for catching Jesus in some legal misstep, didn’t unfold as the religious leaders had planned. Instead, it ended with the woman receiving a much needed second chance in life. Their law demanded that the woman be stoned to death for her crime of adultery. BUT – Jesus said to the crowd,

” ‘If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.’ . . . At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, ‘Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?’ ‘No one, sir,’ she said. ‘Then neither do I condemn you,’ Jesus declared. ‘Go now and leave your life of sin.’ ” (John 8:7-11)

This woman received her second chance – a clean slate, her past forgiven, her sin debt paid, no jail time, no more death penalty hanging over her head – she was free – free to go and live a new life, a life free from the bondage of sin! Talk about your second chances! Yours and mine, dear readers, our second chances are no less miraculous, no less life changing, no less undeserved, but just as earnestly desired and needed as was this woman’s.

Every second chance is a miracle. Every second chance is a gift from God.

Thank You, Heavenly Father, for every second chance You give me. May I not waste a one of them!

sincerely, Grace Day

second chances

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We all need them – at least I know I do and God gives them to me and to you every day, those wonderful, necessary, life-giving, hope filled second chances. (sometimes called “do overs”)

“He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities.” (Psalm 103:10)

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His mercies never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23)

I am so thankful for my Heavenly Father’s limitless supply of mercy towards me. He gives me this on a daily basis, new every morning, just like the life sustaining manna that miraculously appeared new every morning in the desert, keeping the Israelites alive in that barren land. When I realize I got it wrong and I desire forgiveness and an opportunity to try again I trust in this promise from His word –

“If I confess my sin, He is faithful and just and will forgive me my sin and purify me from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

My Heavenly Father’s forgiveness gives me the second chance I so desire over and over and over again. So what do I do with all these second chances? I don’t want to take God’s mercy and forgiveness for granted. I want to be changed by His love for me, a love that never gives up on me. I sure don’t want to be like the guy in this one story – you know the one, right? There was this servant who owed a huge debt to the king, a debt so big he could never repay it, even if he worked his entire life to pay it off. So what happened? Well . . .

“The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.” (Matthew 18:27)

This is unexpected, undeserved and unbelievable. Not only did the servant not go to jail, the debt was canceled, forgiven, wiped away – he no longer owed anything, he was free! So what did this person do with his new-found freedom, his surprise second chance? Well . . .

“But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’ But he (the forgiven servant) refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt.” (Matthew 18:28-30)

Now – some fun facts you might want to know. How much debt had the king forgiven this man who refused to forgive his fellow servant? Here’s the backstory –

“Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.” (Matthew 18:23-25)

BUT – remember what happened? “The servant’s master took pity on him, (mercy) canceled the debt (forgiveness) and let him go. (freedom)” Now here’s the fun fact, the debt of “ten thousand talents” is a debt equal to millions of dollars! No wonder he would never be able to repay it. In comparison, his fellow servant owed him “a hundred denarii” – or a debt equal to only a few dollars.

The man who had been forgiven an unpayable debt, the man who had been given a second chance – this man could not find it in his heart to forgive his fellow servant even a few dollars. Unbelievable! (remember, he had his fellow servant thrown in prison for owing him just a few bucks) God gives me so many second chances every day. I want to make the most of each and every second chance that God graciously gives me. I don’t want to go back to my old ways after being forgiven. I want every second chance to change me, transforming me little by little into the person God is calling me to be.

It will ultimately require more second chances than I can count to accomplish God’s good purposes in me, but fortunately, my Heavenly Father does not give up on me! And He’s not stingy with the second chances. He keeps on offering me second chances filled with His forgiveness, hope and encouragement. All He asks of me is that I do the same for others.

“For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (Matthew 6:14-15)

That’s pretty clear. Unfortunately, the servant forgiven of his great debt didn’t make very good use of his second chance. He went right out and had his fellow servant put in prison for an insignificant debt against him. What happened after that? Well . . .

“When the other servants saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed and went and told their master everything that had happened. Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ In anger his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. This is how my Heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart.” (Matthew 18:31-35)

I don’t want to blow any second chances God gives me like this guy did. If God can forgive me of my huge debt, certainly I can forgive other people their very small debts. I am overwhelmed daily with God’s mercy and forgiveness to me, new every morning – yet another undeserved second chance. I cannot keep that to myself. I will give the gift of a second chance to anyone and everyone, forgiving any debt they might owe me, knowing it is infinitesimally small compared to the debt I owe to God.

Thank You, God, for second chances.

” ‘Come now, let us reason together,’ says the Lord. ‘Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.’ ” (Isaiah 1:18)

sincerely, Grace Day

open arms

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You can’t go home again – statement of fact or the title of a 1940 novel by Thomas Wolfe? Both, perhaps? While those words are the title of a novel by Wolfe, they aren’t necessarily always true in all situations. Sometimes you can go home again. Consider the situation of the prodigal son. He collected his inheritance and left home for good. Or so he thought. He never intended to return home, BUT – when his situation changed, he changed his mind and decided to return home. What happened? How was he received? The following words tell us everything we need to know.

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.” (Luke 15:20)

Sound familiar? This story of the prodigal son’s return is universal. It gives hope to those of us who feel there is no going back, no way to return because we have burned the bridges that once connected us to those we love. BUT – this parable from God’s word tells us something different. Just as the father welcomed the return of his son with open arms, so, too, will my Heavenly Father welcome me back with open arms.

And there’s more. The father of the prodigal didn’t wait for his son to fully arrive, but when he saw his son “still a long way off”, the father ran out to meet him with open arms. He did not wait for his son to travel the remaining distance between them alone. Instead, the son was able to travel the remaining distance of his long journey in the company of his father – the father he had run away from so long ago.

This son, who had turned his back on his father and on his family, was not only allowed to return home, he was welcomed back home with open arms. This returning son was embraced and he was celebrated. In fact, his father threw a huge welcome home party to commemorate his son’s return. Here’s what happened –

“The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.” (Luke 15:21-24)

I guess you can go home again! That’s really good news for those of us who fear we have wandered too far from God, so far that we believe we cannot go home again. But God’s word says otherwise to us. Jesus taught this parable of the prodigal son’s return and the subsequent restoration of his relationship with his father to illustrate what is possible for me and for you, dear readers.

The story of the prodigal son gives each one of us hope. We can know that our Heavenly Father eagerly awaits our return each time we choose to leave like the dissatisfied son did or each time we find we have wandered farther than we ever meant to go. I may have lost my way BUT – I can find my way home again! I can go home again! And when I do, I will find my Heavenly Father running towards me with His arms wide open. I know this because I can count on the truth of these words –

“Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you; He rises to show you compassion.” (Isaiah 30:18)

I can know that my heavenly Father will meet me with open arms, welcoming me back into fellowship with Him, forgiving me and giving me right standing with Him once again. To that end, I find these words especially reassuring –

” ‘Come now, let us reason together,’ says the Lord. ‘Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool. If you are willing and obedient, you will eat the best from the land; but if you resist and rebel, you will be devoured by the sword.’ For the mouth of the Lord has spoken.” (Isaiah 1:18-20)

I will receive a warm welcome when I return home to my Heavenly Father. So will you, dear readers. All of us prodigals will be welcomed with open arms and a party will be thrown for each one of us – just like the party the father in the parable gave to welcome his son back home. God will throw a party for me. He will throw a party for you, too. It will be a no holes barred, all out celebration of joy and rejoicing. God’s word says so.

“I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent. . . . In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” (Luke 15:7 & 10)

Has your life, like mine when apart from my Heavenly Father, become like the prodigal son’s life – a life full of disillusionment, disaster and despair?

“After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything. When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired men have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men.’ So he got up and went to his father.” (Luke 15:14-20)

We know what happened next – his father welcomed him back with open arms. Perhaps it’s time to believe the truth and return home to God’s open arms and warm welcome. Why would I continue living apart from my Heavenly Father when He is watching and waiting for my return and has a party already planned to welcome me home. God’s arms are open. I can go home again!

“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death.” (Romans 8:1-2)

sincerely, Grace Day