who’s at your table?

I love Thanksgiving but I often feel it is the forgotten or most overlooked of the holidays. I mean, what’s not to love? Food, family, football enjoyed without the pressure of shopping for and wrapping all those gifts – it’s the practically perfect holiday. And yet Thanksgiving is barely noticed, squeezed between the hype and hoopla of Halloween decor and overindulgent candy consumption and the equally hyped and hooplaed decor and demands of Christmas. Thanksgiving has no yard decorations heralding its coming or arrival. No wonder we forget to be thankful for the many blessings that we take for granted until any one of them is suddenly taken away from us without warning. Then we realize just how fortunate we truly are.

This Thanksgiving weekend people are gathering together around the table with family and friends to share a meal. Some of us are the hosts and some of us are the invited guests. Which begs the question, who do we invite to share our celebration of Thanksgiving? Who do we give a seat at our table? Full disclosure – this is on my mind because I’m currently doing Giglio’s study entitled “Don’t give the enemy a seat at your table.”

I’m reminded that I choose every day who gets a seat at my table and my choice of dinner guests makes a difference in the outcomes of my life. Dining companions make a difference. Who knew? Well, the apostle Peter knew. He issued a clear warning, saying –

“Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8)

Message received – don’t invite him to share my meal or I will become the meal! I think this is what Mr. Giglio was talking about when he referred to not inviting my enemy to my table. My enemy is identified as the devil. He is not a presence I would want occupying a seat at my table. Consider his description in Revelation –

” . . . the accuser of our brothers, who accuses them before our God day and night, has been hurled down. They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony;” (Revelation 12:10-11)

Do I want the enemy of my soul to have my ear? (which he will have if I give him a chair beside me at my table) No, because he will falsely accuse me since he is the father of lies. He will fill me with doubt and fear. He is not a good dinner guest. Why would I invite him in and give him access to my life when I know this about him? He is described this way in John by Jesus –

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” (John 10:10)

And what about all my enemy’s false accusations? The antidote to lies is truth. I need to hear instead these words of truth.

“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death.” (Romans 8:1-2)

When I give the enemy a seat, he brings other unwanted guests with him to fill up any empty seats at my table. He invites in fear, doubt, despair, deceit, anger, envy – a whole host of unwelcome intruders that come to rob me of the life Christ died to give me. Instead of the enemy of my soul, I will intentionally invite the Provider of my feast to preside over the meal and partake of it with me. In Psalms it says this of the Lord who is my shepherd –

“You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.” (Psalm 23-5-6)

When my Heavenly Father prepares the meal, presides over it and has a seat at my table, all the other seats are filled with the good guests He brings with Him. His everpresent Presence brings His peace, (not as the world gives) His protection, His abundant provision, His promises to me, His plans to give me “hope and a future”, His healing, His mercy, His joy and His comfort (isn’t that what the angel said to the shepherds, tidings of “comfort and joy”?) When I invite my Heavenly Father in and give Him a seat at my Thanksgiving table, my cup really does overflow as I give Him alone all my thanksgiving and all my praise. I simply –

“Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him and praise His name. For the Lord is good and His love endures forever; His faithfulness continues through all generations.” (Psalm 100:4-5)

I most gladly and joyfully –

“Give thanks to the Lord, call on His name; make known among the nations what He has done. Sing to Him, sing praise to Him; tell of all His wonderful acts. Glory in His holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice. Look to the Lord and His strength; seek His face always. Remember the wonders He has done, His miracles, and the judgments He pronounced” (Psalm 105:1-5)

I’m so grateful to God that He is indeed the Provider and Preparer of my table and because my Heavenly Father has a seat at the table He has prepared for me in the presence of my enemies, it’s my table and I don’t have to give the enemy a seat at my table at Thanksgiving or at any other time. Good to know. The choice is mine who I allow at my God given table. Thank You, Lord. Your Presence fills my table with every good thing.

“You have made known to me the path of life; You will fill me with joy in Your Presence, with eternal pleasures at Your right hand.” (Psalm 16:11)

sincerely, Grace Day

a walk on the wild side

I take them often – wild side walks that is. These walks that I’ve been taking give new meaning to the term “concrete jungle.” because these walks aren’t exactly nature walks. Instead of being surrounded by scenic views and bird calls as I walk, I am surrounded by the sounds of traffic, cars backfiring, sirens wailing, horns honking, in addition to the sounds of heavy machinery on the ground and helicopters overhead. No, I am not walking through a war zone, well not technically or literally anyway. I am simply walking during my break around the inner-city high school where I work.

This high school is located on a very busy main street close to the interstate, which explains the constant high volume of traffic surrounding the school. It is close to downtown and a few blocks from the medical center, which accounts for the helicopters landing at the heliport on one of the hospitals there. (or maybe they are traffic helicopters? I can’t tell the difference) The old football stadium has been torn down and a brand new one is being constructed in its place, which is why all the bulldozers and other such big machinery have been operating during my daily walks. Only a chain link fence separates me and the other pedestrians from the noise and activity of all the large earth moving trucks and other heavy machinery operating there every day.

So it is a different kind of a jungle that I walk in every day. I don’t have to watch out for dangerous wild animals, just dangerous traffic. I don’t hear bird calls, I hear sirens growing louder, closer, then fading into the distance. I don’t walk on a dirt path, but on a concrete sidewalk. After all, I am in a concrete jungle. Maybe this concrete jungle is actually more dangerous than any African jungle or Amazon jungle? Actually, both jungles are full of pitfalls and perils. These may be different, but they are equally real and equally challenging.

Ironic isn’t it? I choose to walk on my break in order to focus and find a few moments of peaceful tranquility before I return to the noise and chaos of the classroom, and instead I find myself walking through the noise and chaos of the concrete jungle I have just described to you. Gives new meaning to the expression – “it’s a jungle out there” for sure. It would appear that no matter where I walk, I will face challenges. Whether the possibility of poisonous snakes and prowling lions in the real jungle, or the dangers of fast moving traffic and heavy machinery in the concrete jungle – life is certainly no walk in the park.

The apostle Peter apparently figured this out centuries ago, because he wrote to believers saying, “Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8)

It seems to me that no matter where I walk, I will encounter some degree of difficulty and danger. Some environments are more dangerous than others. Some roads are just harder to walk than others. For me what matters most is not where I am walking, whether that be a peaceful path or an impossibly steep and slippery slope, but who is walking with me. This makes all the difference in my journey and in its outcome.

Case in point – Daniel’s three friends. Talk about your walk on the wild side. I don’t think “furnace walking” is a thing (unlike glacier walking or creek walking) but Daniel’s three friends were forced to do this by an angry king wanting to prove a point. Now a furnace is not an ideal environment for a walk (so much for the where) BUT the who joining them on this walk made all the difference in the outcome of their walk on the wild side. We join the story in progress –

“So these men, wearing their robes, trousers, turbans and other clothes, were bound and thrown into the blazing furnace. The king’s command was so urgent and the furnace so hot that the flames of the fire killed the soldiers who took up Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, and these three men, firmly tied, fell into the blazing furnace. Then King Nebuchadnezzar leaped to his feet in amazement and asked his advisers, ‘Weren’t there three men that we tied up and threw into the fire?’ They replied, ‘Certainly, O king.’ He said, ‘Look! I see four men walking around in the fire, unbound and unharmed, and the fourth looks like a son of the gods.’ ” (Daniel 3:21-25)

These three men weren’t alone in the furnace. God was right there with them, which accounted for the fact that they were no longer bound up but now walking around freely, unharmed. Our story continues –

“So Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego came out of the fire, . . . the fire had not harmed their bodies, nor was a hair of their heads singed; their robes were not scorched, and there was no smell of fire on them.” (Daniel 3:26-27)

For these three, their walk on the wild side did not end in disaster because of Who walked with them, which mattered much more than where they found themselves walking. I’m sure those three friends of Daniel never planned on having to walk through a furnace. Not a lot you can do to prepare for something like that. Even as I write these words I know too many dear people, friends and family, who are walking through something right now that none of us would choose because the path is painful and scary and hard.

These wheres none of us would choose. BUT – we can choose the who – who walks with us. And that makes all the difference. King David made a choice. He boldly declared –

“The Lord is my shepherd,” (Psalm 23:1)

The result of his choice of shepherd? “I shall not be in want.”

King David had to walk in some hard places. He said this –

“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.” (Psalm 23:4-5)

The valley of the shadow of death has to be one of the most dangerous, difficult places to walk if not the most treacherous of all. But David said he wasn’t afraid because of God’s presence walking with him, bringing him comfort. And not only that, David said God’s provision for him was abundant and overflowing while he was still walking in the valley. My Heavenly Father does the same for me every day no matter where I find myself walking. His presence goes with me, giving me comfort, protection and provision – even when, like King David, I am walking through “the valley of the shadow of death.”

I pray this knowledge for all my friends, family and for you dear readers – the knowledge of God’s everpresent presence abiding with you and with me, with each one of us, supplying all our needs even when we find ourselves walking in dark valleys. God is there. We have His promise on that. King David knew this. Must be why he wrote these words about God-

“You hem me in – behind and before; you have laid Your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain. Where can I go from Your Spirit? Where can I flee from Your presence? If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in the depths, You are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there Your hand will guide me, Your right hand will hold me fast.” (Psalm 139:5-10)

How wonderful, how reassuring – to know that God is always present with me no matter where I go, no matter where I am walking, be it a concrete jungle or a dry desert. God is there. I will not be afraid. I will walk with confidence and purpose because Jesus promised –

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20)

sincerely, Grace Day

slow down – turn around

Have I mentioned I’m currently doing a Bible study on “hurry” with some other women? Well, I am. Not that I’ve put into practice what we’re learning or slowed down any yet – but there’s always tomorrow, right? However, a song has been running through my head lately, a really random, really old song – don’t know how I even know it, but the words keep coming to my mind.

The song? – “Turn Around Look at Me” by the Vogues. Although when I looked it up, the Letterman and some other groups sang this song also. It’s a love song, words sung from a man to a woman I’m guessing, even though it could just as easily be from a woman to a man. The message of the song is clear. The one who loves wants the person whom they love to notice them, to see them, to hear them and to realize that they are loved by this “someone” and they don’t even know it!

It seems to me this song could very well be one of the songs my Creator is singing to me. After all, God is singing to me continuously. Just because I’m not listening, doesn’t mean my Creator isn’t singing as He watches over me. His word tells me that He is indeed singing.

“The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing.” (Zephaniah 3:17)

The message of the song is simple – “There is someone walking behind you – Turn around, look at me.” I can believe this is what God is saying to me as I hurry through my days. He just wants me to stop, turn and see that He is right there, so close to me. King David was aware of God’s presence with him when he wrote these words about God –

“You hem me in – behind and before; You have laid Your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain.” (Psalm 139:5-6)

The song continues “There is someone watching your footsteps – turn around, look at me.” These words remind me that my Heavenly Father is watching over me even when I am not paying any attention to Him. The psalmist expressed it this way –

“The Lord will keep you from all harm – He will watch over your life; the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.” (Psalm 121:7-8)

Watching my coming and my going, my footsteps – my Heavenly Father is not a creepy stalker but a benevolent protector who loves me and watches over me. Who wouldn’t want someone who always has their back? who always has their best interests at heart? The song continues with the only line that would not ring true if my Creator were singing it – “There is someone who really needs you – here is my heart in my hand.”

That’s not true BUT – the reverse is. God doesn’t need me, but I desperately need Him. God cares for me, “He loves me with an everlasting love”, “He has compassion on all He has made”, He gave His one and only Son for me – but He doesn’t need me. I need Him. However, the rest is true – my Heavenly Father has given me His heart and His hand –

“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

“For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.” (Isaiah 41:13)

The song continues – “Turn around, look at me. Understand, understand that there’s someone who’ll stand beside you, turn around, look at me”

Are you sensing a theme here? If only I would slow down, cease my endless running from who knows what to who knows what – if only I would pause long enough to turn around and see the One who is pursuing me, the One who loves me, the One who is watching over me, singing over me – my Heavenly Father – the One who is my Creator, my Redeemer, my Savior, my provider and my protector. If only I would stop running from God and instead run to Him – He is waiting for me to do just that, like the song says – “turn around, look at me.”

The song continues – “And there’s someone to love and guide you, turn around, look at me”. My Heavenly Father has promised in His word that He will do this for me, if I will allow Him to –

“Lean not unto your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:4-5)

“He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters, He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.” (Psalm 23:2-3)

This is definitely a song my Heavenly Father is singing consistently, patiently to my soul. As I hurry through my days, He is calling to me – “turn around, look at Me!” Will I stop and turn to see that He is with me and has been all along, or am I too busy, in too big a hurry to acknowledge His presence? Even if I keep running rather than turn around, God doesn’t give up on me or on you either, dear readers. King David knew this to be true. Must be why he wrote these words –

“Where can I go from Your Spirit? Where can I flee from Your presence? If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make My bed in the depths, You are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there Your hand will guide me, Your right hand will hold me fast.” (Psalm 139:7-10)

It is so comforting to know that there is indeed “Someone” walking behind me, beside me, holding my hand, guiding me. That “Someone” is none other than my Creator, my Heavenly Father, God. Which brings us to the last line of the lyrics to this song – words God is definitely singing to me and to you, even as I write them.

“O I’ve waited, but I’ll wait forever – For you to come to me – Look at someone Who really loves you – Turn around, look at me – Turn around, look at me.”

Someone who really loves you and me – that’s God!

“How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1)

“He who did not spare His own Son, but gave Him up for us all – how will He not also, along with Him, graciously give us all things?” (Romans 8:32)

Someone who will never give up on me or on you, Someone who will wait forever –

“The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” (2 Peter 3:9)

“God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.’ ” (Hebrews 13:5)

“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness.” (Jeremiah 31:3)

“Turn around, look at me” – a song about human love, but nevertheless, a song that reflects the divine love our Creator has for each one of us as those He created in His image. As the song continues to play in my head, I will pause from my “hurry”, turn around and look at my Heavenly Father – truly look at Him, truly know Him, truly spend time in His presence.

“One thing I ask of the Lord, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord and to seek Him in His temple.” (Psalm 27:4)

sincerely, Grace Day